In the United States, parents are left alone and cut off from these networks.The more educated the girl becomes, the less contented a parent feels in arranging for her marriage.According to the Qur'anic commands unmarried men and women should maintain their chastity until marriage. The Prophet (peace be upon him) also reportedly said, "Whenever a man is alone with a woman, Satan (Shaytan) is the third among them" (Tirmidhi).When young people are getting to know each other, being alone together is a temptation toward wrongdoing. However, it is not allowed in Islam to take a non-mahram person or persons of the opposite gender as a very close friend. In the Quran, Allah subhanahu wa taala mentioned that good men and women are those who marry, do not have fornicating relationships and do not have paramours (akhdan see al-Nisa ; al-Maidah 5:5).Islam has given this freedom of choice to both young men and women - they cannot be forced into a marriage that they don't want." You commit no sin by announcing your engagement to the women, or keeping it secret. Do not meet them secretly, unless you have something righteous to discuss.The choice of a marriage partner is one of the most important decisions a person will make in his or her lifetime.
However the dating that is vogue in North America involves intimate relationship such as touching, kissing, petting, necking that ultimately results in pre-marital sex.You should know that GOD is Forgiver, Clement." Qur'an Also, you may marry the chaste women among the believers, as well as the chaste women among the followers of previous scripture, provided you pay them their due dowries.You shall maintain chastity, not committing adultery, nor taking secret lovers. Only with their spouses, or those who are rightfully theirs, do they have sexual relations; they are not to be blamed.So how are the young North American Muslims supposed to meet and marry each other?