This isn’t to say a relationship can’t do these things, it’s just that these aren’t the elements upon which a healthy relationship is built. A relationship is an experience to be had and shared.A relationship also isn’t some sort of milestone, a sign that you have “made it,” that you will be OK, that you are now a member of some elite club. It is about discovering how compatible you are with someone else, and if there is enough chemistry and compatibility to form a lifelong partnership, also known as marriage.If he doesn’t propose in the next month, then I will be upset and I will deal with it.Until then, I’m going to enjoy the relationship and not let this bother me. This is But I realized that identifying the problem is only half the battle.When you care too much, you inevitably become attached to a certain outcome.
Either way, if it doesn’t work, it’s because it wasn’t the right fit. If you can realize this, A lot of us make the mistake of prematurely freaking out over something that really turns out to be absolutely nothing.
The problem is our minds trick us into believing there is some sort of payoff to this type of thinking.